Live and learn

One of the most important things I've learnt is that when you have done all you can to achieve something and it does not seem to go your way, just let go and let God take care of it. Sometimes we push too hard for the things that were never meant for us in the first place. Whatever is meant for you will be for you, God always has a bigger plan for us and we should wait on his time. 

The other thing that iv learnt is that expectations are part of life. People can criticize you for having had expectations when it comes to important people in your live. I mean when you give the best of yourself to someone you would think they would return the favour, if they don't appreciate you then it's ok to be hurt to be dissapointed in the fact that your feelings or actions were not reciprocated. 

It doesn't make you a fool it makes you human the saying do onto others as you would have them do onto you has to mean something, if I'm good to you then I deserve for you to be good to me right? 

Well that's my opinion anyway, remember everything that happens in your life should teach you how to be a better you...XO