FIGHT FAIR

While its perfectly normal to have disagreements and arguments in any relationship i think its always important for us to never go below the belt. Arguments should not be war zone and we should not be striving to win, rather it should be a constructive way in which both parties can reach an amicable resolution. Often times when we argue we say things that we cannot go back from. In that moment our"hurt" or "escalated" feelings are all that matter to us and the other person's feelings are minute. I have to admit i was always a victim of this. But then I realized that if I expect for this person to love me and for things to go back to normal 'tomorrow', it would be impossible when i have done such emotional damage to that person and to the relationship that we have. So this is to say whenever you argue remind yourself to fight fair, some things are too painful to move on from..XO

PS seeing that I've been gone a while i have a few pics of me lately

Oversized denim Jacket Zara// Choker & Jeans Topshop// Top Forever21

Shirt Asos//Cami Forever 21// Jeans Topshop// Shoes Zara

Headband & Handbag Zara//Jeans Topshop//Shirt Forever21