Do you

Lets be honest, its hard see your peers, friends or acquaintances  progress and not feel hot and bothered if you not yet there yourself. Don't get me wrong I'm really happy for them and wish them well but there is always a question of when will my time come? Sometimes adulthood feels like a conspiracy to kill all the dreams i had as a child. I know its never a bright idea to compare your situation to other people's but that human part of you will always surface and get the best of you. The moral of this little story is that, its ok to allow yourself to feel but also not to dwell in those feelings nor condemn yourself because things are not where you wish for them to be. Remember God cannot bring you this far only to leave you, our blessings will come at his perfect time. So stay in your lane and focus on whats going right in your life and give less/no energy to what's not going right.

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Head scarf Etsy

Dress H&M// Shoes Zara// Choker Topshop// Watch Daniel Wellington 

Silence=Gold

Hey y'all, been a little MIA but I'm back. Today i want to talk about something that is near and dear to my heart and it is the power of silence. Often times we feel compelled to justify, respond or inject our opinions into situations. There is nothing wrong with this however sometimes we must learn to evaluate the situation and determine if it is worth addressing. 

 Let me tell you something before i turned 25 i thought my voice had to be heard regardless of what the situation was, i would just run my mouth without really taking a step back to assess. As i grew older, not only do i not have the energy to be running my mouth like I'm being paid but i also realize that I'm most cases silence speaks volumes. This is not to say that my/your voice doesn't matter because it does, i just rather use mine for good and when its neccessary. If its not worth your while nor your business then for the sake of your peace and saving your vocal cords for something of value then just keep to yourself.

On a totally irrelevant note i have an ootd a[outfit of the day] below.

Skirt Forever 21// Top H&M// Shoes Converse